Coming Clean

WARNING: This blog post deals with some sensitive topics that may offend, upset or anger. This blog post is going to deal with an issue that I've been thinking about for a very long time, ever since I started to crossplay/crossdress. So all I ask is some respect while you are reading this entry. Trolls, haters, flamers etc who wish to get in my face over this will be blocked. No exceptions. No if's. No buts. OK? Good. Let's begin...... 

Sunday 14th August 2011 

Sunday. The last day of the weekend. A time to go to church and reflect. Or go on a run like the City2Surf. Do some gardening, that's if this weather clears. And even do a bit of DIY. But for me, this isn't any ordinary Sunday. Today is an important day for me.

After many cosplays and crosssplaying/crossdressing, I'm finally coming clean to my parents. Why has this taken so long? Well I've never had the courage to say anything to them in fear of the worst (disowned by family, thrown out etc). But over the last few months, I've learn't that they know about this, but haven't known the real story about what I do. Until now.

I've written what is known as a coming clean letter (not coming out, totally different thing), expressing how I feel about crossplaying/crossdressing and encouraging me to accept me as I am. It wasn't easy to write this letter, as I was thinking of many different things to say.

I was originally going to post the contents of this letter, but was advised against doing it, or I can't discuss the contents of the letter. But all I can say is, that my parents accept me as I am. Regardless if I'm in costume or not.

I felt that a big weight has come off my shoulders and I'm feeling great about it, they accepted the news very well. And with that, it's onwards to newer and brighter projects and more of the crossplay/crossdress that you come to expect, and now in the knowledge that I don't have to hide it from the world. I hope you can join me in a new chapter, as we close the old one. 


Ronnie